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The longer we live, the more things we have to re-learn or unlearn. I feel more put out having to re-learn something I already learned once than learning something new, but a better strategy would be to feel glad to be living long enough to be having to/getting to expand my consciousness.

Old Knowledge

Sometimes knowledge goes bad by becoming untrue.
* I'm average height now. It no longer makes sense to refer to myself as short.
* Prices change. Back in my day, ...

Sometimes knowledge goes bad by losing some or all of its relevance.
* I know how to dial a rotary phone, carefully set the needle onto a record so it doesn't scratch, and rewind a tape when I'm done, but who cares?
* We still have other movie theatres, but I'm generally going to Alamo Drafthouse now when I can. (Except the South Lamar location; I hate that parking garage.)
* I often think of old friends who would be interested in something, but many of those people are no longer available to me.

Sometimes the old knowledge has always been bad; we just didn't realize it.
* racism, sexism, etc.
* word pronunciations I guessed wrong from reading the words

Sometimes our old knowledge is still true; it's just that there's more available now.
* We still have HEB, Wheatsville Coop, and Whole Foods, but we also have Trader Joes (and an additional bigger Wheatsville down south).
* Newtonian physics still works for some things, but now there's more.

New Knowledge

Sometimes the thing we're learning is not actually new; we just make a discovery.
* Thrift stores have things I like. Sometimes even dollar stores do.
* Ten-year-old cars in reliable models are much better than 2-year-old cars in models with average reliability (they are cheaper to buy, cheaper to maintain, and more reliable).
* When I suck at learning something, I can still learn it; it just takes me a while. (I like the term "slow learner." I'm a slower learner at foreign languages and things that require gross motor coordination like volleyball, ultimate frisbee, and ballroom dance.)
* The magic of compound interest (and the anti-magic of inflation).
* You get a diagnosis for a condition you've had for a long time. (See the book The Best Practices Journal for a fascinating example of that.)

Sometimes our old knowledge is just wrong and we finally figure that out. Sometimes we were just mistaken or ignorant; sometimes we were blatently lied to. So we want to try to unlearn the garbage and learn the truth.
* Fats don't actually cause weight gain (even though they have more calories per unit of weight than carbs and proteins); simple sugars are what we should minimize
* untrue prejudices

Sometimes the world changes, and we need to change, too.
* The book Eats, Shoots, and Leaves taught me that even the grammar and usage rules we learned in school can change.
* Austin no longer has Liberty Lunch or Les Amis, but it does have Alamo Drafthouse and Trader Joes.
* Smart phones now exist and are ubiquitous.
* Campbell's tomato soup is no longer delicious. (I think they add a lot more sugar now than when I was a kid.)
* Austin has roundabouts now, including at one of the two main exits of my neighborhood

Sometimes you, yourself change.
* We get potty-trained. (Go, Charlotte, you can do it!)
* We're big enough to not need a car seat, high chair, etc.
* Menstruation starts or ends.
* We get sick or injured or traumatized.
* We develop or lose an allergy.
* We gain or lose a bunch of weight.
* Our hair changes.
* We become vegetarian (or make some other voluntary dietary change).
* We change our way of doing something else (more recycling, less plastic, more frugality, less debt, etc.)
* We get a degree or other certification.

Sometimes there's a big change in your close environment. Almost the entire list of things that can cause stress (both good and bad things) apply.
* We get married, divorced, or widowed.
* We have kids or our kids leave home.
* We enter a new roommate situation.
* We get a new job and/or lose an old one.
* We move to a new house/city/country.

I'm adding a new tag, called new_tricks, for when I discuss examples of this.

on 2018-10-08 03:10 am (UTC)
Posted by (Anonymous)
It's strange getting older, isn't it? A few weeks back, my next door neighbor hired an idiot to remove a dead tree right near the fence between our two yards, and in the process of cutting the thing down, he managed to take out the cable line providing internet to my house. Anyhow, Comcast sent a nice young man out to fix it, and there were a variety of issues... but when he finally got it working I spontaneously leapt into my finest Gene Wilder Young Frankenstein imitation: "Life! Life! Give my creation Liiiffeee!" The kid looked at me like I'd lost my mind. "Young Frankenstein?" I said - blank stare. "Gene Wilder?" - blank stare. Then I realized that movie came out in 1974 and this guy probably wasn't even born until sometime in the 1990s. Oh my! Guess I'll have to un-learn that societal reference!

:-)
-Cat

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