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The college where I work is trying a new application where students fill out a ten-minute survey with questions like:
* How well are you getting along with your roommate?
* Are you homesick?
* What grades do expect to get in college?
* How many hours do expect to study each week?

Basically, they are testing for risk factors for dropping out of college. Based on the answers, they assign the student red code, yellow code or green code. And based on that, various strangers will try to help the student, or at least the student gets directed to various campus resources.

I don't know if the student gets to find out what their own rating is, or even that this is about risk factors.

When I started college, I thought I was at zero risk of dropping out or taking more than four years to graduate. Based on my experiences there and those of my friends, I still think there was virtually no risk of my not finishing in four years.

Yet, I definitely had risk factors:

* I was a first-generation college student. Actually, both my parents had taken some college courses, but I was the first one to go to a four-year college. I would have never guessed this was a risk factor as a student--who cares if other people in my family didn't go? What matters is that _I_ had never been to college and didn't know what it would be like. So I read up on everything I could about what college would be like. I was worried that if it was much harder than high school, I would have serious trouble. But it was only slightly harder, and since we were in class a lot fewer hours, there was plenty of extra time available for homework and studying.

* I had no friends at first. I knew no one at my school when I first got there, and didn't even have a dorm room due to some kind of confusion (but I was on the wait list). And when I did get a roommate, she spent all of her time at her new boyfriend's place. Well, that's why I picked a college where most people lived on campus. And with a 50/50 male/female ratio. Fortunately, I met lots of people during the orientation activities, although I ended up in a different dorm (and different major) than all of them.

* I was lonely. My friends spent A LOT of time studying. But my best friend and I wrote each other daily (for the first couple of years, anyway), and I didn't have homesickness. I'd been away from home many times and moved many, many times, so even though I'd never lived in New England before, it was no big deal.

* I had no idea what to major in. Or what kind of career I wanted.

* My parents had a pretty low income those years, so they might have concluded I was in a low socioeconomic group. In fact, I did go to Head Start (after which they made me skip kindergarten) and we were on food stamps for a while once. But I had both parents, they valued reading and school (and Girl Scouts), and I went to the same high school as the kids of NASA employees went to, so no. That was not a problem. Actually, my grandma worried that I couldn't afford to go to school with so many rich people, and I had indeed never met such rich people before, but, again, we all lived on campus, and they spent all their time studying, not buying expensive things or whatever.

If I had learned or suspected that I was code red or code yellow, that would not have been at all helpful. I think it might have added more doubts rather than inspiring an I'll-show-them response.

Having somebody try to counsel me on how to find better friends probably wouldn't have helped. I'd already taken personality and career interest tests. And having various random strangers who had all read the same results contacting me one after the other asking me about how I'm doing would have just been extremely annoying. (Because they want to involve academic counselors, mental health counselors, career counselors, dorm RAs, maybe even professors and TAs, and who knows who else. I might have had nightmares about the omelet guy at the cafeteria, passing Buildings-and-Grounds guys, and bookstore cashiers all, one after the other asking me, "Are you okay?")

Oh yeah, and these different staff can all get together and talk about you behind your back, too.

I think I could have profited from knowing that study groups and tutoring are helpful and that neither one of those things (or seeing professors during their office hours) is even remotely considered cheating may have been helpful. (Although, of the three times I did talk to a professor, exactly zero times were helpful, and one actually made things worse.)

But studies have shown that graduation rates are better after using this program, blah, blah blah. So it probably helps some people keep from getting lost at their new school.

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In other news, I'm trying to learn to say "jaguar" with a British accent (closer to JAG-you-er than JAG-wahr), but I still don't have it.

Cake of the Day

Here's a pretty one:



Even though it's broken. I love the 3-D fish swimming around in front.

Here's a view showing more of the pieces:

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Yesterday I finally got around to starting to work on actually reserving a place to stay in Galveston. My conference is next week, so I am an idiot. But somehow I had it in my head that if necessary I could probably just drive around and find some place to stay. And if this turns out to be the biggest Galveston party week of the year, Houston is in easy driving distance and is huge.

I was really dreading doing this, and I'm not sure why. I always think of hostels as "youth hostels," and I am not a youth; therefore I am an infiltrator. And you can't make reservations online at the hostel, you have to call them. Long distance. And then you have to ask them for favors. And what if no one's there except while I'm at work?

Let me just repeat that I'm an idiot.

But things totally worked out for me. I called from home using an ordinary everyday phone. A perfectly comprehensible human being answered the phone.

"Sandpiper Hotel."

That doesn't sound like "International Hostel Galveston" but I remembered reading that the hostel was located in a hotel, and this name sounded familiar.

"I'm calling for the International Hostel."

"Please hold."

"No problem."

The same voice came back. "Hello."

That's it? No explanation? "Um, I'm calling for the International Hostel."

"This is." Oh. Guess it's not the same voice after all.

So, it turned out they still had beds available. For all three nights. They are still $18.50 + tax = $21.28 per night plus a $5 room key deposit. An annual membership is also required. My hint that I would like to negotiate this price led to a comparison price for the hotel part of the place: $59 per night. And you get two gigantic beds all to yourself. But you don't have access to the common room, refrigerator, free washer and dryer, etc. It was only $30 anyway, no big deal.

So the total price for three nights comes to $93.84, which is totally, totally awesome. The hotel at the conference is something like $129 per night.

I said that in the olden days you had to bring your own sheets to hostels, but I got the idea that wasn't required at this place. I asked if there was anything I should bring that I might not think about.

So I got to learn that you have to bring your own laundry detergent. Hee hee! And the cheapest grocery store is just eight blocks away, although if you are feeling lazy there is also a drug store right across the street which has two aisles of groceries and some of the groceries are even the same price as at the grocery store. There are eight beds per room, but usually there are only one or two people per room.

I love this place! (Opinion completely subject to change once I am actually there.)

After that call I was pretty much skipping around the house. I felt like a huge weight had been lifted from my shoulders. I was supposed to be being responsible and calling and finding out if the hostel would really be a reasonable choice and then making some kind of reservation and now it is all done!

I don't know why I was dreading it so much. It was totally easy and even fun. There's no reason to fear calling service people anyway. It's their job to be nice to you. And they're so used to dealing with wiener heads that it's not even that hard for them to be nice to me. (Yes, I know not all service people are nice, but if you haven't given them any money yet, you can just hang up on them and move on. Calling one is really not something to dread and put off starting for several weeks or months.)

Journal entry of the day: Indigo Rose's Why I love my massage therapist way more than my doctor - It's partly because she is very good friends with her massage therapist, but it's an interesting comparison anyway. For example, doctor: "He told me that my symptoms meant I was unlikely to have a concussion." Massage therapist: "Duane told me that [my persistent headache] is not my usual stress or tension related headache. He pointed out a bruise forming on my temple (another?!) and said that this headache is going to require me to heal, not me to relax. He suggested that I wait another week or two before becoming worried. This is really handy information, since it means I don't waste my time thinking I've tensed up again and instead just take a painkiller."

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