Nov. 15th, 2014

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I just found the fourth book in the Mysterious Benedict Society series, though it was published in 2012, and highly enjoyed it.

It starts off in a universe similar to that of the Series of Unfortunate Event series: The main character is a smart, caring, optimistic, creative, and cautious orphan. The adults are generally useless or dangerous.

And I quickly grew to love the main character. Small little things added up that are hard to show in quotes.

A faint impression in the man's hair suggested he'd been wearing a hat, though Nicholas saw none on the bench, nor any on the hat rack nearby. With some difficulty the man turned to a different section in his newspaper (the damp pages clung together) and resumed his reading, mouthing the words to himself. Nicholas, watching his lips, followed along for a tedious ten seconds ("...the impact on the price of wheat since the war's conclusion...") before losing patience and interest.

The middle of the book is focused on a mystery that of course does not get solved in the middle of the book and I feel they stretched parts of out too long.

Then there's a scene that reminds me of one in Malcolm X's life. He had grown up dealing with so much horrible racism that when someone told him that the white man was the devil, finally everything made sense. (Yikes!) Later when he went on a pilgrimage to Mecca, he met white people who clearly weren't devils and as a result he changed his whole way of thinking in ways that were clearly difficult and courageous.

There are some good lessons about what kind of person you should be. I don't think I can even follow the main lesson; that's how trite it isn't. I'm just not that good.

And then there's a sudden, though believable, happy ending. I wish they would have stretched that part out a bit more and I would like to have seen a bit further into the future, perhaps a few weeks later when a certain character made a promised visit.

Mostly, I just enjoyed hanging out with the main character through the whole book.
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Mr. Money Mustache has recently published Are You Giving the Shaft To Your Future Self? As many of his posts do, it takes the form of a vicious, if amusing rant. But I like his point about how the things you do not only affect you right now but also can be setting you up for better and worse times in the future.

And the post is about finances, but the concept can be applied to all kinds of things.

It's fun to think about what kinds of things am I thankful to my past self for giving me. All kinds of things! For example:
* great boyfriend
* fascinating and fun friends
* great pension
* paid-off house
* good recipes
* warm coat, hat, and scarves
* LiveJournal entries
* having kept up in Spanish class

What kinds of coal has my past self left in my stocking? I'm very lucky that there aren't a bunch of obvious answers. I'm sure there are a few ticking time bombs like going swimming every day in my childhood sans sunscreen and letting certain deficits build by not eating vegetables or exercising enough, but none of those are too scary to me. (Which might be a problem.)

Mostly, my lumps of coal are things I have convinced myself are fine, but are they? Should I have built better negotiating skills? Should I have more friends of varying ages (almost all my friends are within ten years of my age)?

Which brings me to the fun part. What kinds of presents would I now like to give to my future self? Before reading this blog post, I already had several ideas:
* finish qualifying for my pension ASAP (12 more weeks)
* learn Spanish
* learn ASL
* exercise more
* eat more vegetables
* declutter
* mend broken things that I love
* maybe add some grab bars in the bathroom?
* minimize my income taxes (oh, I have an evil plan for this year)
* keep up with regular medical check-ups
* start thinking about whether I'll prefer bifocals or two sets of glasses when the time comes

But should I be thinking more broadly? For example:
* learn to be more dependent/ask for help
* learn to allow others to do the same around me
* build bravery
* get more money-making and frugality skills
* learn self-defense
* create something big

It's an interesting notion.

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