I just wash what's in the pockets. We both have a pretty good habit formed now to pull wallets, keys, and phones out of our pockets when we undress at night, so the only things that get washed usually are random receipts, pocket change, or candy wrappers. I've learned that money (paper or otherwise)comes out just fine, though the jingly variety makes a racket! Luckily these days, I can't actually lock my keys in the house without having the keys, and my car key remote never comes out of my pocket (and the car refuses to lock if the key's still in it anyway), but I still have a very old habit of the "pocket pat down" whenever I change locations. Long ago, I did manage to lock the keys in the car, with the engine running, in a bad neighborhood, in the rain...

The toilet lit always gets closed, as the medicine chest is on the wall above, and I live in fear of dropping something precious into the bowl!

We don't really use any of our appliances enough to have 'default' settings, so we just set when we use it.